I just wanted to take a moment to write to all the women who are devoted fans of DDHG. I'm one of the women you talked about on the site -a single girl dating a married man. I met my married man Kevin, when we worked together at a law office as paralegals. He was such a wonderful guy, smart, funny and always supportive of me. He let me know that he was in a bad marriage, but that he had two young kids and he was going to stay in it for them.

I admired his devotion to his children and kept my distance although I was attracted to him. Slowly, but surely, though, were grew closer until one night after work, we went to happy hour. We talked for hours until he had to go back home to his wife. Since I'm single with no kids, it wasn't a problem for me. When we said goodbye that night he kissed me. It was incredible and I think that was the moment we both fell in love.

There was only one problem - I was pregnant. He didn't want me to keep the baby. He said it would ruin everything with his wife. I was so upset and heartbroken. I felt like I had been used by this man who told me every night how much he loved me and what a great life we were going to have together. I realize now that it was all an illusion. Were it not for my beautiful son, the relationship would have been useless. Soon after it came out that I was pregnant with his child, his wife left him.

You're left feeling alone, sad and hurt while the married plays house with a wife he supposedly doesn't love anymore. Don't ever date a married man. Nothing good will ever come of it and knowing that you took part in helping a man hurt his wife and children is a feeling that will haunt you forever. There are plenty of single guys in the world that will love you. Dating a married man is like having a guy in your life on a part-time basis. You deserve more than just a part-time lover.